Rides to high life do and always will teach you how your surroundings and society and the norms of the society treats you and everyone around you judging you on the basis of your sex, age, clothing, behavior and language. And few other factors too. But I was basically judged by these. But that's what makes us humans. Emotions. Opinions. Feelings. Views. So much of variety. So beautiful. Yet so cruel. The world will seem to be beautiful and cruel at the same time if you look at it in the perfect. Again, since we're humans, we'll have "perfect" as a variable. This is because everyone has their own perfect. So, whenever a sight or any kind of matter is perfect to you, just know that it's perfect only to you. Others will take it in a more or less perfect way. So nothing in this world is perfect. It's just your mind that creates your own variables and makes you turn them into constants to a point where you no longer question yourself.
Learn to question yourself.
Learn from your rides.